Fashionista 514

Dearest Hater…

Posted in Fashionista, My thoughts exactly..., SHUT UP ALREADY, hater, rant, travel by fashionista514 on September 23, 2009
So here is a comment I received in response to my last blog post…

Anonymous said…
“You should consider yourself ridiculously lucky that you even have the option of thinking of going to a spa while you are in a developing world where children do not have the option to even see a doctor. Talk about needs. Your coach booties could probably comfortably feed a family for one month possilby more. My suggestion? Quit complaining and realize that you are not there for yourself but are there for those that need your help. Or else get the fuck out and quit blogging like you care about anything else but a free trip. But don’t worry, I’ll still be reading your trainwreck of a blog. It is ridiculously entertaining.”

Now I don’t usually waste my time on Haters, but this comment seemed amusing enough to address…

First up… I DO consider myself to be EXTREMELY priviledged in this life I lead. I never take it or anything around it for granted. So you all know (as I realize this may not always be clear) everything I have, I have worked for. My clothes, my lifestyle, my freedoms. So please knock off the whole judging me as a spoiled brat princess who gets everything handed to her shit. It’s really getting pretty old. I do what I can for those who are in need to the best of my ability. Same goes for back home, and in life in general. Yes, I am human and I DO bitch. When I am jetlagged, tired, on the rag and feeling sick I am not at my best. Does that take away from my efforts of helping pass 600 people a day and giving them eyesight? Does that make me have to live my life in modesty when I can experience and enjoy things that others can’t? I would think of myself as MORE of a fool if I didn’t take advantage of everything my life has to offer. It would be a life half lived. A life wasted. A life someone else could have lived to the fullest. As for the spa… I’m a girl… tell me… really what do you expect? You obviously have never been… I think you too would change your mind about “allowing yourself” to fantasize about them when you were feeling under the weather if you just tried it out already ;) I never once mentioned it being my priority… just something I can’t wait to do when I get home. This is a FASHION blog, not a humanitarian organization. I shouldn’t even technically be blogging about any of this as it has no relation whatsoever to the content I keep. I WANT to share this. It is IMPORTANT to me despite what you may think. The hours are long and it is hard work, I never said I wanted out! Before you ASSUME it was a free trip, you should know that I paid to be here. Every meal, every night stay, every taxi, every flight, even the training. So don’t come up here on my little corner of the internet and tell me that I have my priorities mixed up and I don’t give an eff about anything other than myself. You who hides behind the computer screen criticizing my efforts under the name Anonymous. If you are involved in your own things, I commend you. If you aren’t, I commend you – I am not one to judge. To each their own. One word of advice… next time you decide to trash my wall, at least have the courage to voice your opinions with your name and face behind them. You might even consider transforming all that pent up negative energy you save to dish out on my blog into some positive love vibes to spread around. God knows with people like you in the world we need it.

As for calling my blog a trainwreck… well that’s just in bad taste… I sincerely hope you continue to follow my blog and be ridiculously entertained by it forever more… oh, and for future reference, I really don’t have time to constantly justify my shit… so if you or anyone else tries this again your comment will just get a big fat delete in the face. Enjoy!

MUCHOS BISOUS DE PERU!

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  1. stilettolover91 said, on September 23, 2009 at 1:56 pm

    AMEN!!!! Fuck the haters!

    http://www.hottheels.blogspot.com

  2. Katie Ms. Cocktail Smarty said, on September 23, 2009 at 2:06 pm

    LMAO!! You fuckin rock girl!! So eloquently put! :) Hope your having a wonderful time Ms. World Traveler!

  3. .:*aMbAr*:. said, on September 23, 2009 at 2:23 pm

    I believe I love you a little bit more. Haters are only envious people. F 'em. as in Forget them… geez! :)

    PS: it's "besos"

  4. BakerGirl said, on September 23, 2009 at 2:44 pm

    How annoying to have to justify your lifestyle, choices, and even your charity trip! Haters need to go someplace else!

  5. twinsouls888 said, on September 23, 2009 at 2:57 pm

    Amen ^_^. As long as you don't hurt anybody else, you don't have anything to feel guilty about.

    Whatever you do is your own, it's your free will ^_^. No one has the right to judge you .If you have a few haters, you have hundreds who likes you and will be here for you. Enjoy your life and keep the beautiful posts coming ^_^

  6. williamsmommy2005 said, on September 23, 2009 at 3:14 pm

    I frequent your blog and I have to say Amen! you by no means have to justify your actions or lifestyle and those who critisize are more than likely jealous they can't do the same.

  7. Sara (The Makeup Snob) said, on September 23, 2009 at 3:35 pm

    Beautifully said! People are ridiculous sometimes… :(

  8. Shar [X3MZSHAR] said, on September 23, 2009 at 3:59 pm

    Enough said! People definitely talk shit about the fact that I can buy myself designer things but as a kid my parents could only afford so much with three other siblings, they cant really spoil us. I dont let them get to me because even my mom loves it when I splurge for myself (and for her of course) with MY hard earned money. And btw I love your 'trainwreck of a blog' :D

  9. Anonymous said, on September 23, 2009 at 4:05 pm

    That hater girl just bitter and jealous! Obviously nothing good going on in her own life!

  10. Sher said, on September 23, 2009 at 4:32 pm

    thats crazy that someone would actually read a blog they dont like. all in all, its really them they have a problem with that they would waste their valuable time to put other people they dont know down. If that person was so great, why is she shit talking people on their own damn blog! People can write whatever they want on their blog anyway.
    I love your blog and I dont care if people complain. No one has never NOT complained about anything before. there is nothing wrong with complaining anyway, I rant all the time :)

  11. Danielle said, on September 23, 2009 at 4:39 pm

    Oh dear :( I was reminded of a quote by Gandhi "My life is my message". I think your message is loud and clear and yes, I admire you more for it.

  12. Katrina said, on September 23, 2009 at 6:08 pm

    OH BROTHER!!!! That is ridiculous! You are such a generous girl with a loving and caring heart. They are just too simple minded to differentiate the blog world from the real world. You blog about fashion…that doesn't mean that is all there is to you. Don't even mind their comment, they just don't get it.

    You keep enjoying EVERY second of your world travels!

    If Anonymous thinks so strongly about their humanitarian responsibilities, they should go to a third world country themselves and give their designer shit to feed a family! Why all talk and no play? Typical HATER!!!!

  13. Lauren said, on September 23, 2009 at 6:56 pm

    Ha ha, what a horrible comment.
    Take no notice of it. Your blog is great x

  14. Babz said, on September 23, 2009 at 6:56 pm

    I live in a undeveloped country and i know what its like to not have money to even afford basic things. But unlike this hater I dont blame you for all the money u spend or anything because im a grownup and i know that you have earned every bit of it. Blood sweat and tears. And i believe that if your poor its upto you to do something about it..not always upto the welltodo to help you out.
    Love your blog :) I check it everyday. xoxo

  15. Elizabeth Marie said, on September 23, 2009 at 8:02 pm

    You go girl…amazing response to a complete degenerate who didn't deserve a second thought anyway. Keep on keepin on! XO

  16. Andhari said, on September 23, 2009 at 8:28 pm

    What a bitch, somebody's getting too jealous with your good life. Can't get his or her head to right perspectives :D

  17. jessalyn said, on September 24, 2009 at 12:08 am

    dont you love how people have the nerve to go off on you, but never have the balls to use their real name?
    You are gorgeous, smart, have impeccable taste, and the work you are doing is beyond amazing! for every one jealous hater, there are hundreds of us who are inspired by you! keep up the fab work!! :)

  18. GingerMandy said, on September 24, 2009 at 12:14 am

    keep rockin' and stay beautiful :)

  19. Mel said, on September 24, 2009 at 12:47 am

    Wow, hmmm, I think it's very clear how hard you work for what you have…
    I feel like Anon. needs to read more of your blog so they can eat their words…

  20. Manju said, on September 24, 2009 at 12:54 am

    What a bitch, don't let her get to you!

  21. Opé - Style Artist said, on September 24, 2009 at 1:14 am

    Don't you love anonymous comments?! I get them too… I usually ignore them though.

  22. Lipstick Rules said, on September 24, 2009 at 3:23 am

    Always boggles my mind when people send notes like this! If they don't like what they are reading, then stop. No one is forcing them to read. So annoying. Good for you to expose their dumb comments.

  23. Chrissy said, on September 24, 2009 at 5:26 am

    I don't think anyone forces this anonymous writer to read your blog.
    You got a good answer though. And you made some points very clear.

  24. Gabriela said, on September 24, 2009 at 5:34 am

    Why people think that we have to sell all our things and work hard to save the world?
    Are they doing that?
    How they have time to read beauty and fashion blogs?
    Why they didn't sell their computer and work 16 hours a day 7 days of week?
    Maybe they should give the example. At least this hater has louds of free time to read yours.
    Great Blog and Great Post.

  25. JP said, on September 24, 2009 at 6:38 am

    Someone needs to reassess their priorities if they think that talking shit on YOUR blog is going to get them somewhere.

    Assholes.

    Love you, girl!

    Jaime
    http://denimdebutante.com

  26. Anonymous said, on September 24, 2009 at 11:46 am

    I've stayed with this girl, and all I saw was that she's most generous and loving! Accusing Robyn of being selfish shows that "Anonymous" has absolutely no idea what kind of person she is, and thus no right whatsoever to judge her like that.

    Robyn, keep doing what you're doing; it's fantastic!! (and I can say that, because if I hadn't met you I would never have started reading a fashion blog, and if it weren't so good I wouldn't have continued :D )

    Hanna.

  27. OceanDreams said, on September 25, 2009 at 6:51 am

    You go girl, that a** person was not nice at all and you are a lovely girl with great style and a lot of love to give! Gosh, they can stay away and never return!!!


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